There is a saying, if you want to do something you look for means.
If you don’t want to, you look for excuses.
But sometimes the conditions are such that means are just not there.
It happens when we live at someone’s place or/and far away.
Any relationships continue to work when it is close and reciprocal.
Bad relationships work because people keep doing bad things to each other even from a distance.
Good relationships work when help comes at the right time.